Five Questions Men Fear

The 5 questions most feared by men are:

1. What are you thinking about?
2. Do you love me?
3. Do I look fat?
4. Do you think she is prettier than me?
5. What would you do if I died?

What makes these questions so difficult is that every one is guaranteed to explode into a major argument if the man answers incorrectly (i.e., tells the truth).

As a public service, each question is analyzed below, along with possible Responses.

Question #1: What are you thinking about?

The proper answer to this, of course, is: "I'm sorry if I've been pensive, dear. I was just reflecting on what a warm, wonderful, thoughtful, caring, intelligent woman you are, and how lucky I am to have met you." This response obviously bears no resemblance to the true answer, which most likely is one of the following:

• Baseball.
• Football.
• How fat you are.
• How much prettier she is than you.
• How I would spend the insurance money if you died.

Perhaps the best response to this question was offered by Al Bundy, who once told Peg, "If I wanted you to know what I was thinking, I would be talking to you!"

Question #2: Do you love me?

The proper response is: "YES!" or, if you feel a more detailed answer is in order, "Yes, dear." Inappropriate responses include:

• Oh Yeah, crap loads.
• Would it make you feel better if I said yes?
• That depends on what you mean by love.
• Does it matter?
• Who, me?

Question #3: Do I look fat?

The correct answer is an emphatic: "Of course not!" Among the incorrect answers are:

• Compared to what?
• I wouldn't call you fat, but you're not exactly thin.
• A little extra weight looks good on you.
• I've seen fatter.
• Could you repeat the question? I was just thinking about how I would spend the insurance money if you died.

Question #4: Do you think she's prettier than me?

Once again, the proper response is an emphatic: "Of course not!" Incorrect responses include:

• Yes, but you have a better personality.
• Not prettier, but definitely thinner.
• Not as pretty as you when you were her age.
• Define pretty.
• Could you repeat the question? I was just thinking about how I would spend the insurance money if you died.

Question #5: What would you do if I died?

A definite no-win question. (The real answer, of course, is "Buy a Corvette and a Boat"). WARNING: No matter how you answer this, be prepared for at least an hour of follow-up questions, usually along the these lines:

- WOMAN: Would you get married again?

- MAN: Definitely not!

- WOMAN: Why not-don't you like being married?

- MAN: Of course I do.

- WOMAN: Then why wouldn't you remarry?

- MAN: Okay, I'd get married again.

- WOMAN: You would? (with a hurtful look on her face)

- WOMAN: Would you sleep with her in our bed?

- MAN: Where else would we sleep?

- WOMAN: Would you put away my pictures, and replace them with pictures of her?

- MAN: That would seem like the proper thing to do.

- WOMAN: And would you let her use my golf clubs?

- MAN: She can't use them; she's left-handed

- WOMAN: - - - silence - - -

- MAN: Oh ( expletive deleted).